well dear, i have a 9yr daughter and a 11yr old son(going on 25 as well lol) but we may be a little different as i got started pretty early lol. I'm gonna be 30 this march and my wife will be 29 this year(you do the math lol) and i feel ya, i'll be working forever too unless i win the lottery or hit the mega moolah jackpot roflmao